My Favorite Ways to Pass the Long Days of Pregnancy

Fun Ways to Pass the Days While Expecting

I know, we are all probably busy enough that pregnancy flies by in a way. But every time I’ve been expecting I’ve found myself wanting to commemorate each day in honor of baby as best I can. I’m never really *not* thinking about my little one, even as I rush around wiping other bottoms, making meals, reading umpteen books, cleaning, and cleaning some more…

Maybe it’s *because* I’m so busy that I want to set aside time to think of my growing blessing. I don’t want to miss these days.

And, of course, there are days when nausea and fatigue get the better of me and I *need* to slow down. And days late in pregnancy when my ankles are swollen or my varicose veins are painful, and I spend lots of time resting. But I don’t want that time to be wasted, either.

I’m just a week away from my due date with baby #4 (!!!), and I’ve decided to make a list of all of the things I’ve enjoyed doing to while away this wait. Some of them have taken planning and others are just little activities I always look forward to but come automatically. I hope it’s useful for you as you anticipate baby, or perhaps a walk down memory lane that you’ll want to share with others. :)

A Few of My Favorite Things…

Fun pregnancy Announcements - I haven’t ever gone all out with professional photography or announcements at family gatherings, but I’ve loved coming up with different ways to share the good news! We found out we were pregnant with our third baby around Halloween, so we dressed the older two in “Thing 1 and Thing 2″ costumes with a sign that said “Thing 3″ on my belly. :) This time around I updated my Facebook cover photo with an image of four sets of shoes. It’s not original, I know, but it was fun to see the meaning dawn on people.


Choose a name - Some of us choose names long before we are pregnant, and others wait to see baby with their own eyes before pinning one down! I definitely love names and am always eager to start thinking of baby as who he or she will be as an individual. Our children’s names (Aidan Robert, Cora Ruth, Alexander Ross, and Arthur Ransom) have been chosen very intentionally to include both family and literary references. I tend to drive my husband crazy with lists until we settle on a name, and I’ve even blogged about my favorite online resources for finding names. I also sometimes like polling others about my name choices – not that I ever go with the favorite. :)

Join a Due Date Club/Forum – I really enjoyed participating in a due date club on Baby Center my first time around. It was great to see how pregnancies varied and find people to empathize with. We exchanged little gifts, even! This time around we had some unique high risk pregnancy issues and I was able to find a support group on Facebook that was a wonderful resource and community!

Scrapbook/Journal - I’m not a master scrapbooker by any means. I like kits and I like easy. When I try to deviate things just never look the way I want them to. And with 3, soon-to-be 4, children I don’t have unlimited time and energy to be creative. My first baby got a photo album and customizeable calendar (both gifts from others), and my sister purchased a very nice all-in-one scrapbook kit for me from Creating Keepsakes (no longer available) that got me hooked on more extensive projects. With babies 3 and four I’ve decided simple is better (so they get done!) and I’ve used “pregnancy journals” like this one (for Alex – Amazon affiliate link) and a great printable version that will be available in a new edition soon (for Arthur). I’m using Project Life (Becky Higgins) kits for all of the children as they grow – documenting each year in just a few pages. Here are a few shots of how I’ve customized the printable pregnancy journal into a baby book:

I purchased a very basic photo album/scrapbook and printed what I wanted from My Pregnancy Journey:

Arthur's Baby Book


Arthur Names

And then I interspersed other things like maternity photos (from Hosh Photo – aren’t they great?) and cards mailed to us. Easy Peasy!



Look Up Birth Flowers and Birth Stones - Just another little thing to pass the time and form a bond with baby. I like planning names, nicknames, and decorating themes around things like this when it fits. Arthur is Diamond and Daisy (or Sweet Pea).

Use Pinterest for Room and Shower Ideas – Birth announcements and gender reveal ideas too, of course! I officially have entirely too many boards. :)

Visit Anjanette @ Raising the Barrs’s profile on Pinterest.

Choose a Bible Verse or Poem – I’ve enjoyed find a verse to represent each of my children that I can then use to meditate and pray upon, plus teach to them later. Sometimes it has something to do with their name (like Arthur Ransom’s below), and sometimes the character I hope they will have.

Arthur Ransom

Read Books About Pregnancy, Birth, and Breastfeeding – I’ve read a LOT of these books now throughout four pregnancies! I still learn new things and find new inspiration! It really pays to be aware off the wide range of opinions and advice out there so that you can make the best decisions for your family. Here are some of my favorites (all Amazon Affiliate links, thanks!):


Your Best Birth by Abbey Epstein and Ricki Lake
Christian Woman’s Guide to Childbirth by Debra Evans (hard to find, but check your library)
Natural Birth Stories by Shannon Brown (this book includes MY birth stories!)
Thinking Woman’s Guide to a Better Birth by Henci Goer (it’s a little too antagonistic at times, but good!)
Ina May’s Guide to Childbirth by Ina May Gaskin
Wise Woman Herbal for the Childbearing Year by Susun Weed


Womanly Art of Breastfeeding by La Leche League International
So THAT’S What They’re For! by Janet Tamaro
Real Food for Mother and Baby by Nina Planck (not JUST about breastfeeding)
Breastfeeding and Natural Child Spacing by Shelia Kippley
The Ultimate Breastfeeding Book of Answers by Jack Newman
The Breastfeeding Lifeline (ebook) by (me! and lots of others)

Craft Something for Baby - I like to dabble in crafts, but I’m not especially skilled. I can technically knit, crochet, sew, etc. but no one would pay me to do any of it. :) Still, it’s fun to put your hands to good use on behalf of baby. I’ve made something small for each – bibs, hats, scarves, toys (like taggy blankets and cloth dolls), and this time I am *almost* done with a basket for diapers (crocheted) that I started for my LAST baby! haha!

Choose a Stuffed Toy for Baby – I think you’ve gathered by now that I am sentimental. I like for each little one to have their special animal. We don’t do too many frivolous toys here, but I make an exception for this one. The name “Arthur” has ties to the Welsh word for “Bear,” and we live in ALASKA, so I hunted until I found just the right life-like stuffed bear for him to snuggle. :)

Create a Baby Registry – For first babies, this usually goes without saying. However, even for subsequent babies it’s nice for long distance family and friends to get an idea of what you really need or want, since you may already have the essentials. Don’t be afraid to make a registry each time!! I’ve used and the Amazon Baby Registry. One of the perks of the latter is that you get 10% off everything (that qualifies as baby stuff) on your registry that no one purchases for you! Woot!

Take Maternity Photos – This is the first time I’ve ever had professional maternity photos taken, but I still made sure to do at least a little bit of documenting with each pregnancy. It’s fun (and reassuring) to look back at previous pregnancies and remember that YES, you really DID get that big last time, too. :) Consider wearing the same outfit for each photo (whether monthly or more sporadically), or at least taking the photos in the same place/angle to see growth better. If you look tired (um… expected!), don’t hesitate to crop your head out of the photo for the baby book!! :D


Have Fun With Gender Prediction - There are about a bajillion different “tests” and wives tales out there about Gender Prediction. Just google it! Chinese calendar, wedding ring over the belly, pee in some cabbage juice. Bajillion, I’m telling you! You could even do a whole slew of them and make a video about it like these folks.

Exercise – Don’t be impressed. I am not a fitness guru. I don’t LIKE working out for the heck of it. I prefer getting my movement in throughout the day in organic ways – walking instead of driving, carrying children, cleaning the house (ok, I don’t LIKE that either), etc. However, I’ve been very aware that pregnancy, hormones (hello extended breastfeeding), and age all have an effect on my overall physical health. Muscles have stretched beyond their limits and need to heal. Others have atrophied from under-use, or are tight from improper alignment. So, some exercise is essential whether I like it or not.

It’s very important that pregnant and postpartum women understand, however, that there are lots of ways that the wrong type of exercise can hurt instead of help. Excess weight loss can affect baby’s development and later breastmilk production, and certain exercises are dangerous to mom and baby, or can exacerbate issues such as Diastasis Recti (separation of the abdominal muscles – which MOST postpartum women end up with).

My favorite resources for this are the book Maternal Fitness (Amazon affiliate link) and the pregnancy videos and info at Fit 2 B Studios.

Make a Birth Plan - Whether you deliver at home or elsewhere, a personalized birth plan is a great way to think through all of the decisions you have the opportunity to make about labor and delivery/recovery. My birth plans at freestanding birth centers (2 of four of my births assuming all goes well with this one) have been more geared toward my overall desires for outcomes and environment, whereas my two hospital birth plans were mostly about what interventions I did and did not want. You can read my hospital birth plans and an example of another mom’s birth center plan in the book Natural Birth Stories by Shannon Brown.

Make a Labor Playlist – I didn’t decide to compile a list of songs for labor until my third birth. I guess I thought I’d feel awkward about it in the hospital, maybe. Or maybe I thought it wouldn’t help that much. In any case, I used a YouTube Playlist at Alexander’s birth and I was SHOCKED by how much it helped! I found that I couldn’t really hear or focus on the music during the peak of the hardest contractions, but as I came down from the pain, the music helped me settle and maximize the time I had to relax in between them. I chose songs that would encourage an comfort me, and they really were a fantastic aid. This time I will likely listen to my favorite Pandora station (lots of Sarah Groves), or instrumental music because the commercials in front of all of the youtube videos nowdays drive me crazy.

Set Up My Nursing Corner/Basket/Area – It’s more difficult now to stay in one place than it was when I had only one or two children, but I still try and take advantage of any help offered in the first few weeks and rest as much as possible. Of course “resting” usually still involves and little one at the breast, so I like to have everything I might need right next to me so that I don’t have to get up as much.

This has usually meant a basket or table top next to my preferred seating with a burp cloth, breast pads, lightweight blanket, the book I’m reading, a bottle of water, maybe a knitting project, etc. Here’s a good blog post with examples and photos from Keeper of the Home.

Other Ideas:

Wash & Organize Clothes for Baby
Write a Letter to Baby
Read Books About Birth/Babies to Older Kids
Finish Projects for Older Children (photo albums, crafts), and the House (that new towel bar!!)
Pack for Labor
Make Freezer Meals

I hope it goes without saying that this is not a list of things you *should* do to prepare for baby. No Super Mom competitions here! I’ve been pregnant four times and most of these things I’ve only done in one or two of the pregnancies. You may be plenty busy without any of these ideas or they may not be appealing! Do take time though, whatever your circumstances, to revel a bit in the miracle happening inside of you. :)

What about you? Anything I missed/forgot that you look forward to doing while pregnant? 

Subscribe to Living Well on the Last Frontier Newsletter Subscribe to Raising the Barrs via RSS Feed Contact Raising the Barrs via email Like Raising the Barrs on Facebook Follow @anjanetteopal on Twitter Follow Anjanette @ Raising the Barrs on Pinterest Follow Raising the Barrs on Google Plus Subscribe to Anjanette Barr on YouTube Image Map

Pregnant! And Where I’ve Been (Obviously Not Blogging!)


This has been my longest blogging break in over 7 years! Writing has become such a big part of me that it was initially very difficult to scale back. Over time, though, it has felt right. Now also feels like a good time to break the silence and keep everyone up to date. So, this […]

Continue reading...

‘The Sea House’ by Elisabeth Gifford

Elizabeth Gifford

A book based on a real letter to the New York Times from a nineteenth-century clergyman who claims he saw a mermaid is just too intriguing to pass up. The recommendation came from LitFuse, which always sends me wonderfully inspiring titles centered around faith, but the tone of the book synopsis stood out from the […]

Continue reading...

For Your Health ~ HUGE Summer Giveaway!

Are you excited for summer? It’s here! It’s here!! And I am over the moon to be bringing you an amazing chance to get all the tools you need to be healthy this summer. Three winners will be selected to win a total of over $700 in prizes! This giveaway is geared towards anyone wanting […]

Continue reading...

Homemaking Advice and Support in Real Time, a Free Ebook, and an Ice Cream Maker Giveaway


Make sure you read to the end to enter to win an Ice Cream Maker bundle (Worth $120+)! Anyone who knows me well will tell you that I’m not winning any awards in the housekeeping department. It’s a big struggle for me, and while I’ve developed a better perspective and better methods over the years […]

Continue reading...

Silenced: The Latest in the Alaskan Courage Series, Plus Win Prizes in the Rugged Romance Sweepstakes


It was just a month ago when I wrote about staying up all night to finish the fun novel I was reading. Consider this post the same story, second chapter. ;) Dani Pettrey sent me the fourth book in her Alaskan Courage series last week and while I didn’t lose TOO much sleep this time, […]

Continue reading...

Be A Blessing: Laundry Detergent for Those in Need

Get free laundry detergent and bless a family in need at the same time!

I was blessed to live in a homeless “transitional housing” facility for almost three years. While we were still newlyweds paying off college loans and just beginning to grow our family, we accepted the position of “Resident Managers” of a home that helps homeless families get back on their feet by offering them a place […]

Related Posts Plugin for WordPress, Blogger...Continue reading...
Hide me
Sign up below to receive my exclusive updates newsletter!
Show me
Buy viagra online Buy Analgesic drugs online Buy Arcoxia drugs online Buy Discount Cymbalta (Duloxetine) from Online Buy Generic Feldene (Piroxicam) Online Buy Generic Indocin Online Buy Discount Indocin CR Buy Generic Motrin (Ibuprofen) Online Where To Buy Generic Naprosyn Purchase Neurontin Online Buy Nimotop generic online no prescription Buy Generic Ponstel cheap (Mefenamic Acid) online Buy pyridium online no prescription Buying Generic Relafen 500 Mg Buy Tegretol 400mg Medication Buy Generic Voltaren Online No Prescription Buy Generic Lidocaine Cheap займы онлайн срочный заем кредитная карта онлайн микрозаймы онлайн на карту быстрые займы онлайн срочный кредит без справок займы на карту микрозайм онлайн займ онлайн займ на карту
%d bloggers like this: